• Possibility Managers around the world are offering accommodations to each other free of charge SO AS TO meet up, connect, and

      exchange REAL value...

      REAL VALUE IS the CURRENCY that makes life worth living.

    • StartOver.xyz

      NOTE: This website is a Bubble in the Bubble Map of the free-to-play, massively-multiplayer, online-and-offline, thoughtware-upgrade, matrix-building, personal-transformation, adventure-game called StartOver.xyz. It is a doorway to experiments that upgrade your thoughtware so you can create more possibility. Your knowledge is what you think about. Your thoughtware is what you use to think with. When you change your thoughtware, you go through a liquid state as your mind reorganizes itself. Liquid states can bring up transformational feelings and emotions. By upgrading your thoughtware you build matrix to hold more consciousness and leave behind a life of reactivity. No one can upgrade your thoughtware for you. No one can stop you from upgrading your thoughtware. Our theory is that when we collectively build 1,000,000 new Matrix Points we will change the morphogenetic field of the human race for the better. Please choose responsibly to read this website. Reading this whole website is worth 1 Matrix Point. Doing any of the experiments earns you additional Matrix Points. Please use Matrix Code POSCOUCH.00 to log your Matrix Point for reading this website on StartOver.xyz. Thank you for playing full out!

    • How possibility couchsurfing Works

      Here is how to become a Possibility Couchsurfing Host or Journeyer

      1

      Participate in an

      Expand The Box training

      - OR -

      in a weekly Possibility Team

      Take a look at the Expand The Box online calendar HERE.

       

      Take a look at the Possibility Team online calendar HERE.

       

      If you can't find a weekly Possibility Team near you, then why not make your own?

       

      At the Possibility Team website you can download your free Possibility Team Handbook with complete instructions for starting your own weekly Possibility Team. The website also offers tons of ideas for Matrix-building experiments to do and skills to practice together. Ask your own Gremlin to do the things your Box is too scared to do. Your Gremlin will have no problem doing it. He is designed for this.

      2

      Fill out this free Possibility Couchsurfing

      ONLINE REGISTRATION form.

      Your information will be used for three things:

      1. To confirm your attendance at an Expand The Box training or Possibility Team.
      2. To register you as an official participant in the Possibility Couchsurfing program.
      3. To locate your position on the Possibility Couchsurfing World Map.
      3

      After you have registered and are accepted as an official Possibility Couchsurfer...

      ...you will be added as a member to the Private Possibility Couchsurfing Facebook Group.

      You will also be emailed a link to:

      1. The Possibility Couchsurfers WORLD MAP
      2. The Possibility Couchsurfers CONTACT INFO SPREADSHEET.
      4

      Before your Journey, personally connect with potential Possibility Couchsurfing HOSTS.

      1. Tell each HOST what your conscious intention is for your travel. Write it down first in your Beep! Book.

       

      2. Tell your HOST where you are in your Evolutionary Journey. For example, you could tell them what you are passionate about, what your Possibility Management experience has been like, what experiments or practices you are engaging in now. If they are interested you could also tell them how many Matrix Points you have earned in the StartOver.xyz game, how many Possibility Labs you have done, what your favorite study books are. Ask your HOST about their Evolutionary Journey.

       

      3. Make interesting exchange offers so that your HOST will feel rewarded by your visit. Ask what you can do for them before you arrive or while you are there.

      5

      Suggestions for during and after your Journey:

      • Upload questions, discoveries, and exciting photos with enticing captions to the private Possibility Couchsurfing Facebook Group Page.
      • Write touching articles and publish them at medium.com and your other favorite platforms.
      • Make and upload lively video blogs.
      • Tell legend-making stories about what you have learned and discovered during your Possibility Couchsurfing adventure.
      We are each on a Journey. Sometimes our Paths cross.
       
      The Earth is so amazing: the more you know Her the more you love Her. She begins right there under your feet, exactly where the first step of your next Journey begins.

    • WHO YOU ARE...

      INCLUDES WHERE YOU ARE GOING

       

      Each step of your Journey brought you exactly to where you are now. Were your steps conscious? Or unconscious? Where do you go next?

      Possibility Couchsurfing reflects who you are becoming on your Path.

      Reveal the subtle changes you notice about your evolutionary experiences at your Possibility Team, during meetings at the Café, and on your Journey. Ask people about what they are discovering and use Vacuum Learning.

      1. What is alive in you in your 5 Bodies?

      2. What do you need now?

      3. Make interesting offers to negotiate so that you AND the others get what they need. This is not about compromising. Use your initiated Gremlin to create and go through nonlinear possibility Doorways together with others.

      4. Ask the person across from you the exact questions you would love someone to ask you.

      5. Open up safe spaces for deepening the conversation to explore further.

      This is how to create High Level Fun!

    • UNDERSTANDING the context of POSSIBILITY COUCHSURFING

      Possibility Couchsurfing is a 'gameworld' that Possibility Managers are using to interact in.

      It works according to its Context and Traditions, just like every other gameworld in your life.

      CONTEXT

      CLARITY

      Context is like the soil out of which a plant grows. It is like the gameboard upon which a game is played. The Context sets the mood for the quality of your daily-life interactions. Context answers these questions:

      • Is Possibility Couchsurfing competitive or collaborative?
      • Is Possibility Couchsurfing Low Drama or High Drama?
      • Are there winners and losers? Or is this a Winning Happening game?
      • What is the currency of exchange in this gameworld?
      • What are our shared values?

      Most of these questions are answered during Expand The Box training and ongoing Possibility Team meetings. That is why we make them a requirement before you start in Possibility Couchsurfing.

       

      To be clear: Possibility Couchsurfing is a Winning Happening creative-collaboration global Gameworld that is contexted in Adulthood and Radical Responsibility to weave connections between Edgeworkers that expand the field of influence for the emergence of next culture.

      RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

      COLLABORATION

      Possibility Couchsurfing is open to any graduate of

      Expand The Box training

      OR

      to participants in a weekly Possibility Team.

      The reason for this requirement is that in order to understand and play in a gameworld such as Possibility Couchsurfing that has a context of Radical Responsibility, some preparations are necessary. It makes sense, no?

      If you meet this prerequisite then you can immediately REGISTER to become a Possibility Couchsurfer.

      Welcome!

      PREPARE YOURSELF

      SIMPLICITY

      A Journeyer needs two minds. One mind is clear and crisp, proactive, and committed. This is the mind you activate to handle your logistics and communications. One sloppy or misunderstood communication that causes your Host to wait more than a minute for you to meet them, or makes your Host feel like you did not pay the shared food costs you agreed to, can leave a bad taste in someone's heart even after days of glorious inner and outer adventures. I am sure you know what we mean.

      The other mind you need is no-mind. It is the capacity to Be Present, to listen as a Space, to be Unhookable and to transform your own wounds and Reactivity into gateways for new parts of your Being to be born.

      With your logistics mind, expand your NOW, go into the future, use your fear to make plans and document your itinerary complete with ticket information. Then as soon as you are done planning, shrink your NOW back to no bigger than three seconds. Why? Because a minimized NOW is the only place you can enjoy the taste of fresh-squeezed orange juice or the warmth of a heart-to-heart hug.

      PS: Many items are essential for lightweight Journeying, but remember to bring your Possibility Stone! Without it, you have no toolbelt...

      TRADITIONS OF THE JOURNEYER

      ATTENTIVENESS

      As a Journeyer, we recognize that you are on a Path of Evolution. For one thing this means there is no net to fall into. You have reached the edge of modern culture thoughtware and you have kept going. What is out there to walk on? Whatever you build!

      This means that as you Journey you build out the transformational and initiatory gameworld of next culture - archearchy. This means we need you to document what you are creating so others can more easily follow in your steps. Build your website and be sure to show the Hosts and fellow Journeyers you meet so that others can meet them too and the network grows.

      There are three domains of love to inhabit in your daily life and interactions.

      The first domain is Ordinary Love. This is the kind of love where you go around hoping to find someone to love you. You glance here and there wondering, "Does he love me?" "Could she love me enough?" There is a scarcity of love. You live your life in love survival.

      The second domain of love is Extraordinary Love. It is actually Adult Level Love, but since authentic adulthood initiations were banned from modern culture 6000 years ago, you are not initiated, and experiencing Adult Level Love is definitely Extraordinary. Extraordinary Love is when you source love in the world. You walk down the street radiating love. You are love happening. If there is ever not enough love you make more. Love is abundant.

      The third domain of love is Archetypal Love. Archetypal Love is not personal because the Universe is made out of Archetypal Love. Your Archetypal Ego State comes alive and your energetic body hums with Yellow Stuff during exchanges with Your Pearl, with Bright Principles, and with your Archetypal Lineage.

      For Journeying, you sometimes need new thoughtmaps. This Thoughtmap of 3 Domains of Love might from time-to-time be quite useful for you. Stay attentive. Learn to Split Your Attention and do Self Observation. This will add incredibly precious dimensions to your Possibility Couchsurfing.

      TRADITIONS OF THE HOST

      HOSPITALITY

      As a Possibility Host we recognize that you are on a Path of Evolution. For one thing, this means that when you provide a couch for a roving Possibility Manager you are not rescuing them! You are establishing a platform for creative collaboration. Your encounter is an exchange of real value. There exists something of mutual importance to share. Your job is to find out what that is for you. What excites you to meet with a fellow Journeyer? What do you want from them? How can you risk asking for what you want? We are not saying that every exchange will be fair. The life of an Edgeworker, Evolutionary, Riftwalker. Bridgebuilder, Trainer, or Seed Planter is not guaranteed to be fair. More likely it is guaranteed to be astonishing, extraordinary, exquisite, dynamic, and transformational. Look for these elements in your exchange with your guest, and highlight them in the stories you tell afterwards.

      • Be precise and clear in your house rules. Every house has rules. Figure out what yours are and be sure each Journeyer agrees to abide by them.
      • Be precise and clear in your agreements about time and space and cleanliness.
      • Be precise and clear about your material objects - which are available for use and which are not.
      • Be precise and clear in your agreements about money.
      • Be precise and clear in your agreements about intimacy.
      • We recommend that you and the Journeyer check-in with your 4 feelings and 4 emotions and what you each need in your 5 bodies once each day. Particularly be radically honest and authentic about any reactivity. This will keep your inner house clean.

    • world map of POSSIBILITY COUCHSURFer hosts

      (example)

      This is a screenshot of the Possibility Couchsurfing World Map.

      After you are REGISTERED and accepted as a Possibility Couchsurfer you will be given access to the online Map

      to help you locate Possibility Couchsurfer Hosts.

    • possibility couchsurfing EXPERIMENTS

      EXPERIMENT POSCOUCH.01 MAKE YOUR JOURNEY WEBSITE

      Make a website to tell the story of your Journeys. Entries at Instagram or Facebook vanish in a short time and do not honor the value of a Journey by leaving behind long-lasting clues for others to find. Your clues will be different from anyone's in the world, so what you share can help a unique set of other people use what you learned to move forward on their own Journey. Some people think that they should wait until their journey comes to its end before sharing about it. But they forget how important the beginnings are, the preparations both inner and outer. And besides, once started, the Journey never end...

      If you link to possibilitymanagement.org as a source of the context of your Journey, please send your website to <clinton at nextculture dot org> so we can share with others at possibilitymanagers.org.

      EXPERIMENT POSCOUCH.02 SHARE YOUR JOURNEY EXPERIMENTS FOR OTHERS TO ALSO TRY

      While you prepare for your Couchsurfing Journey and during your travels, you will gain so many insights and new impressions from your own edgework experiments. This EXPERIMENT is to recognize yourself with a new identity: "I am an experimenter!" Then give your new identity credibility by documenting how to do experiments. Each time you go to the edge of your comfort zone and stay there trying things, these are experiments. Even going to the marketplace in Brazil and trying some fruit or vegetable you never saw before is an amazing experiment. Write it up. Here is a blank Experiment Form you can use if you want. Share your cool EXPERIMENTS on your Website and also with us so we can share them with others!

      EXPERIMENT POSCOUCH.03 BECOME A NEXT CULTURE SEED

      The function of a seed is to make more seeds.

      As a Possibility Couchsurfer you can re-define your purpose so as to be a seed for next culture.

       

      Do you have to be an expert in next culture to inspire people to do next culture experiment shifts? No. Not at all. You only need to share your enthusiasm with others and provide connections to next culture resources they can use... such as these:

       

      The Initiations website:

      initiations.mystrikingly.com

       

      These next culture design books:

      The 4 Keys: Social/Ecological/Economic/Worldview from Gaia Education

       

      These seed empowering websites:

      becomeaseed.mystrikingly.com

      villageseed.mystrikingly.com

      rareseeds.com (Baker Creek Heirloom Seeds to share)

      newrefugees.org

       

      Bring seeds along with you to leave behind for other Journeyers to find and treasure such as the books Gefühle by Patrizia Patz, or Conscious Feelings by Clinton Callahan, or even the parent/child read-together book Goodnight Feelings or Gute Nacht Gefühle by Clinton Callahan.

       

      And wherever you go, be sure to tell people about the free-to-play online-and-offline personal-transformation matrix-building thoughtware-upgrade game called StartOver.xyz with its launching platform at Spaceport!

      EXPERIMENT POSCOUCH.04 WALK TO YOUR NEXT POSSIBILITY COUCHSURFING DESTINATION

      Find a Possibility Couchsurfing Host who lives less than 1000 Kilometers from your starting point and refuse to use any form of transportation other than your own two feet to get from where you are now to their place!

      No bikes.

      No inline skates.

      No horses or camels.

      No hitchhiking.

      Simply walk.

      This EXPERIMENT is about making a commitment and keeping it no matter what. It is about taking a stand for doing something you want to do, even if what you want to do might be unreasonable when viewed from certain reference frames.

      Please also do EXPERIMENT POSCOUCH.01, POSCOUCH.02, and POSCOUCH.03 while you do POSCOUCH.04!!! Especially in those times when you think that nothing is happening!!!

      This is so exciting, even I want to do it!

      EXPERIMENT POSCOUCH.05 MAKE VIDEO INTERVIEWS OF YOUR POSSIBILITY COUCHSURFING HOSTS

      The most powerful elements contributing to an extraordinary interview are the questions and the space.

      Your questions need to be utterly simple, profoundly relevant, and unexpected, so the questions have no right answer. Then a new aliveness can come flowing through the person you are interviewing. They will be as surprised and excited as you are by the results.

      The energetic interview space you hold needs to be an irrefutably safe vacuum. What this means is that YOU MAKE NO COMMENTS YOURSELF. You as the interviewer are off the screen. Ask your subject to repeat the questions you ask in their answers. The important lesson here is the same lesson taught in the film Dr. Strange: "It is not about you."

      TECHNICAL:

      • Have 5 questions already written into your Beep! Book before you start, but do not tell the speaker what they are beforehand, and do not be afraid to ask even better questions if you think of them during the interview.
      • Use a tripod for the camera - do not shoot hand-held.
      • Use a clip-on lapel microphone that jacks into your camera to record clear voice.
      • Find a place with as little background noise as possible.
      • Shoot close up to include shoulders and face, but encourage the speaker to use their hands.
      • Do not chop off the top of the speaker's head.
      • Interview them for 15-30 minutes.
      • Cut your finished interview down to 3-10 minutes.
      • When you have a great interview, please share it with us at Next Culture Radio.
      Lights! Cameras! Action!

     

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