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Context is like the soil out of which a plant grows. It is like the gameboard upon which a game is played. The Context sets the mood for the quality of your daily-life interactions. Context answers these questions:

• Is Possibility Couchsurfing competitive or collaborative?
• Is Possibility Couchsurfing Low Drama or High Drama?
• Are there winners and losers? Or is this a Winning Happening game?
• What is the currency of exchange in this gameworld?
• What are our shared values?

Most of these questions are answered during Expand The Box training and ongoing Possibility Team meetings. That is why we make them a requirement before you start in Possibility Couchsurfing.

To be clear: Possibility Couchsurfing is a Winning Happening creative-collaboration global Gameworld that is contexted in Adulthood and Radical Responsibility to weave connections between Edgeworkers that expand the field of influence for the emergence of next culture.

Possibility Couchsurfing is open to any graduate of

Expand The Box training

OR

to participants in a weekly Possibility Team.

The reason for this requirement is that in order to understand and play in a gameworld such as Possibility Couchsurfing that has a context of Radical Responsibility, some preparations are necessary. It makes sense, no?

If you meet this prerequisite then you can immediately REGISTER to become a Possibility Couchsurfer.

Welcome!

A Journeyer needs two minds. One mind is clear and crisp, proactive, and committed. This is the mind you activate to handle your logistics and communications. One sloppy or misunderstood communication that causes your Host to wait more than a minute for you to meet them, or makes your Host feel like you did not pay the shared food costs you agreed to, can leave a bad taste in someone's heart even after days of glorious inner and outer adventures. I am sure you know what we mean.

The other mind you need is no-mind. It is the capacity to Be Present, to listen as a Space, to be Unhookable and to transform your own wounds and Reactivity into gateways for new parts of your Being to be born.

With your logistics mind, expand your NOW, go into the future, use your fear to make plans and document your itinerary complete with ticket information. Then as soon as you are done planning, shrink your NOW back to no bigger than three seconds. Why? Because a minimized NOW is the only place you can enjoy the taste of fresh-squeezed orange juice or the warmth of a heart-to-heart hug.

PS: Many items are essential for lightweight Journeying, but remember to bring your Possibility Stone! Without it, you have no toolbelt...

As a Journeyer, we recognize that you are on a Path of Evolution. For one thing this means there is no net to fall into. You have reached the edge of modern culture thoughtware and you have kept going. What is out there to walk on? Whatever you build!

This means that as you Journey you build out the transformational and initiatory gameworld of next culture - archearchy. This means we need you to document what you are creating so others can more easily follow in your steps. Build your website and be sure to show the Hosts and fellow Journeyers you meet so that others can meet them too and the network grows.

There are three domains of love to inhabit in your daily life and interactions.

The first domain is Ordinary Love. This is the kind of love where you go around hoping to find someone to love you. You glance here and there wondering, "Does he love me?" "Could she love me enough?" There is a scarcity of love. You live your life in love survival.

The second domain of love is Extraordinary Love. It is actually Adult Level Love, but since authentic adulthood initiations were banned from modern culture 6000 years ago, you are not initiated, and experiencing Adult Level Love is definitely Extraordinary. Extraordinary Love is when you source love in the world. You walk down the street radiating love. You are love happening. If there is ever not enough love you make more. Love is abundant.

The third domain of love is Archetypal Love. Archetypal Love is not personal because the Universe is made out of Archetypal Love. Your Archetypal Ego State comes alive and your energetic body hums with Yellow Stuff during exchanges with Your Pearl, with Bright Principles, and with your Archetypal Lineage.

For Journeying, you sometimes need new thoughtmaps. This Thoughtmap of 3 Domains of Love might from time-to-time be quite useful for you. Stay attentive. Learn to Split Your Attention and do Self Observation. This will add incredibly precious dimensions to your Possibility Couchsurfing.

As a Possibility Host we recognize that you are on a Path of Evolution. For one thing, this means that when you provide a couch for a roving Possibility Manager you are not rescuing them! You are establishing a platform for creative collaboration. Your encounter is an exchange of real value. There exists something of mutual importance to share. Your job is to find out what that is for you. What excites you to meet with a fellow Journeyer? What do you want from them? How can you risk asking for what you want? We are not saying that every exchange will be fair. The life of an Edgeworker, Evolutionary, Riftwalker. Bridgebuilder, Trainer, or Seed Planter is not guaranteed to be fair. More likely it is guaranteed to be astonishing, extraordinary, exquisite, dynamic, and transformational. Look for these elements in your exchange with your guest, and highlight them in the stories you tell afterwards.

• Be precise and clear in your house rules. Every house has rules. Figure out what yours are and be sure each Journeyer agrees to abide by them.
• Be precise and clear in your agreements about time and space and cleanliness.
• Be precise and clear about your material objects - which are available for use and which are not.
• Be precise and clear in your agreements about money.
• Be precise and clear in your agreements about intimacy.
• We recommend that you and the Journeyer check-in with your 4 feelings and 4 emotions and what you each need in your 5 bodies once each day. Particularly be radically honest and authentic about any reactivity. This will keep your inner house clean.